Wednesday, September 23, 2020

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 The ‘Batman Effect’: How having

an alter ego empowers you

By David Robson

18th August 2020

Thinking of yourself as a separate entity can reduce anxiety,

while also kicking up some major benefits for your confidence

and determination.

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How do the world’s top stars muster the poise and determination to stand on stage, despite the

nerves and anxiety of having a bad performance? For both Beyoncé and Adele, the secret has

been the creation of an alter ego.

Beyoncé’s was the assertive and empowered ‘Sasha Fierce’, who allowed her to perform with

extra self-confidence and sensuality. “Usually when I hear the chords, when I put on my stilettos,

like the moment right before when you’re nervous… then Sasha Fierce appears, and my posture

and the way I speak and everything is different,” she told Oprah Winfrey in 2008. It was a

strategy that she continued to use until 2010, when she felt she had matured enough to avoid

the psychological crutch.

Inspired by an emotional meeting with Beyoncé herself, Adele followed suit, telling Rolling

Stone magazine in 2011 about her creation of ‘Sasha Carter’. The persona was a combination

of Beyoncé’s Sasha Fierce persona and the (real) country music star June Carter. Adele said the

strategy helped her give her best to every performance during her breakout year.

Although the embodiment of a fictional persona may seem like a gimmick for pop stars, new

research suggests there may be some real psychological benefits to the strategy. Adopting an

alter ego is an extreme form of ‘self-distancing’, which involves taking a step back from our

immediate feelings to allow us to view a situation more dispassionately.

“Self-distancing gives us a little bit of extra space to think rationally about the situation,” says

Rachel White, assistant professor of psychology at Hamilton College in New York State. It

allows us to rein in undesirable feelings like anxiety, increases our perseverance on challenging

tasks, and boosts our self-control.


Beyoncé debuted her Sasha Fierce alter ego in 2008, which she says boosts her

confidence and improves her performance (Credit: Alamy)

Shifting perspective

Ethan Kross, professor of psychology at the University of Michigan, has led much of this

research over the past decade, showing that even small shifts in perspective can help people to

gain control of their emotions.

In one study, participants were asked to think about a challenging event in the future, such as

an important exam, in one of two different ways. The group in the “immersed” condition were

told to picture it from the inside, as if they were in the middle of the situation, whereas those in

the “distanced” condition were asked to picture it from afar – as if they were a fly on the wall.

The differences were striking, with those taking the distanced viewpoint feeling much less

anxious about the event, compared to the immersed group. The self-distancing also encouraged

greater feelings of self-efficacy – the sense that they could pro-actively cope with the situation

and achieve their goal.

Adopting an alter ego is an extreme form of ‘self-distancing’,

which involves taking a step back from our immediate feelings to

allow us to view a situation more dispassionately

In other experiments, participants were asked to give a small public talk. Beforehand, they were

advised to think through their emotions about the challenge using the third person (“David

feels…”) as if they were a separate entity, rather than the more immersive first person (“I feel”).

Like the distanced visualisation, this advice was designed to encourage the person to see the

situation from an outside perspective.

Once again, the creation of the psychological distance helped the participants to master their

anxiety, reducing both their subjective ratings of the emotion and objective measures, such as

the changes in heart rate and blood pressure that usually accompany threatening events.

And those feelings of greater confidence were reflected in the quality of the presentation

itself, according to the judgement of independent observers asked to rate their performance.

The eye on the prize

Self-distancing seems to enable people to reap these positive effects by leading them to focus on

the bigger picture – it’s possible to see events as part of a broader plan rather than getting bogged

down in immediate feelings. And this has led some researchers to wonder whether it could also

improve elements of self-control like determination, by making sure that we keep focused on our

goals even in the face of distraction.

Adele performing in 2015 in Germany. She followed Beyoncé's example and fashioned

her own persona called Sasha Carter (Credit: Alamy)


Along these lines, one experiment asked whether people were better able to focus on difficult

word puzzles if they had been asked to practice self-distancing before the test. In this case, they

were asked to give advice to themselves in the second-person – “You will concentrate on each

question” – as if they were talking to a friend, rather than themselves. Besides improving overall

performance, the effects could also be seen in questionnaires measuring their attitudes to the

task, which revealed a stronger intention to improve their performance.

By boosting their sense of self control, self-distancing can also improve people’s health

behaviour. It can increase people’s intentions to exercise, for instance, and helps them to resist

the temptation of junk food. This is no mean feat. “Few self-control strategies to date have

successfully improved eating outcomes,” says Celina Furman, a social psychology researcher at

the University of Minnesota.

We could all boost our emotional regulation, self-control and

general poise by choosing to embody another persona à la

Sasha Fierce

Working with Kross, Furman recently asked participants to practice self-distancing as they were

faced with the choice of various kinds of food – fruit compared to candy, for example. When

participants had practiced self-distancing (asking “What does David want?”, for example, rather

than “What do I want?) they were more likely to choose the healthier option.

Although further studies will be needed to test the long-term benefits of the approach, Furman

thinks that it could be incorporated into a variety of different weight-loss schemes. “The ease of

distanced self-talk does offer exciting potential applications,” she says. It could be incorporated

into mobile apps, for instance, with notifications that prompt you to think in the third person as

you plan your meals.

The ‘Batman Effect’

The possibility that self-distancing could increase willpower is particularly exciting for child

psychologists, given that self-discipline is thought to be as important for academic performance

as IQ.

A few years ago, assistant psychology professor White took a group of six-year-olds and set

them a test of concentration on a computer, in which a series of images flashed and they had to

press the space bar whenever they saw a picture of cheese. The task was designed to be rather

boring, but the children were told that it was “a very important activity” and that they would be a

“good helper” if they worked on the task for as long as possible – increasing their motivation to

persevere. As a potential distraction, the researchers also left them with an iPad, with a much

more fun game designed to lure them away.

Beforehand, the children were told that it could sometimes be helpful to think about their

feelings, if the task got too boring. Some were told to think “Am I working hard?” while others

were encouraged to think in the third-person (“Is Hannah working hard?”). A third group were

given the option to change persona entirely by inhabiting the role of their favourite fictional hero,


such as Batman or Dora the Explorer. They were even given props to dress up, and when they

got bored, they were told to consider their behaviour as if they were the actual character, asking,

for instance, “Is Batman working hard?”


Self-distancing and alter egos even work with children. When kids inhabit a persona like

Batman or Dora the Explorer during a task, studies show they work harder (Credit:

Alamy)

The researchers had suspected that the alter ego would be a more extreme form of self-

distancing, and the results showed exactly that. While the children thinking in the third person

spent about 10% more of the total available time on the task that those thinking in the first

person, it was the children inhabiting their alter egos who stuck it out for the longest of all.

Overall, they spent 13% more of the total available time on the task than those thinking in

the third person (and 23% more than those thinking about their behaviour in the first person).

White has also found that adopting an alter ego can also help children to concentrate on a

complex card game, in which they had to follow complex rules that kept on changing. Once

again, “the Batman effect” seemed to have increased their resolve and concentration,

improving their “executive function”.

While these were laboratory experiments, White hopes that this small exercise might ease many

situations that require self-control. The test of perseverance, after all, was already very close to

the kind of decisions that children might face when doing their homework with the potential

temptation of the TV or cell phone. She thinks it may also be useful to avoid feeling dispirited

during new challenges. “Pretending to be someone who's more competent, and getting that

distance from the situation, could help them to overcome the frustration they're feeling when

they're learning something new.”


What would Beyoncé do?

Given these findings and the benefits of self-distancing more generally, White suspects that we

could all boost our emotional regulation, self-control and general poise by choosing to embody

another persona à la Sasha Fierce.

After all, certain religious initiatives already encourage this kind of thinking, she says. “When I

was growing up in the ‘90s, there were all these bracelets that said, ‘WWJD’ – What would Jesus

do?” she says. “So, I think it’s a pretty intuitive concept to a lot of people.”

If you want to try it yourself, White suggests picking a different person for different types of

goals – maybe a wise member of your family for a personal dilemma, or a work mentor for a

professional problem. “When I was a postdoc, we had a little saying in our lab that if you're an

undergrad, pretend to be a grad student. If you are a grad student, pretend to be a postdoc, and if

you're a postdoc, pretend to be the leader of the lab – just to get you to that next level,” she says.

Whatever persona we choose, the practice should create some psychological space away from

potentially distracting feelings, while also reminding us of the behaviours we want to emulate.

Whether we’re placing ourselves in the shoes of a friend, a religious figure, or Beyoncé herself, a

little imagination might put us all a little closer to the person we wish to become.

amrutamalyada

 Krishnadeva Raya (who ruled much of present day Karnataka & Andhra in the 16th century) wrote – ‘Amuktamalyada’ (‘Giver of the worn garland’) on Andal. This is considered a Telugu classic But, the best part is, he composed this while on war with Kalinga . If this is not a fine example of work-life balance, 

Amuktamalyada (Teluguఆముక్తమాల్యద) is an epic poem in Telugu composed by Krishnadevaraya of the Vijayanagar Dynasty. Amuktamalyada translates to A garland of pearls. Considered as a masterpiece, Amuktamalyada describes the story of wedding of the Hindu Lord Ranganayaka an avatar of Vishnu and Goda Devi aka Andal the Tamil Alvar poet and daughter of Periyalvar, at Srirangam.

Krishnadevaraya was the king of the Vijayanagara Empire reigning between 1509–1530. He was the third ruler of the Tuluva Dynasty, and presided over the Vijaynagar empire at its zenith. Krishna Deva Raya earned the titles of Kannada Rajya Rama Ramana (lit, "Lord of the Kannada empire"), Andhra Bhoja and Mooru Rayara Ganda (lit, "King of three Kings"). He became the dominant ruler of the peninsula of India by defeating the Sultans of BijapurGolconda, the Bahmani Sultanate and the Gajapati Kingdom of Orissa.

Krishnadevaraya during his reign patronised many TeluguKannadaTamil and Sanskrit poets. His court had 8 Telugu poets (Astadiggajalu) - Allasani PeddanaNandi ThimmanaMadayyagari MallanaDhurjatiAyyala-raju Rama-BhadruduPingali SuranaRamaraja Bhushanudu and Tenali Rama Krishna. The Kannada poets Mallanarya who wrote Bhava-chinta-ratna and Satyendra Chola-kathe and Chatu Vittal-anatha who wrote Bhagavata also enjoyed his patronage. The Tamil poet Haridasa and Tamil literature were patronised by Krishnadevaraya. The Sanskrit poet Vyasatirtha who wrote Bhedo-jjivanaTat-parya-chandrikaNyaya-mrita (a work directed against Advaita philosophy) and Tarka-tandava enjoyed his patronage. Krishnadevaraya was himself an accomplished Sanskrit scholar and wrote Madalasa CharitaSatyavadu Parinaya and Rasamanjari and Jambavati Kalyana


It is believed that Krishnadevaraya wrote the work, after getting a dream in the portico of the Srikakula Andhra Maha Vishnu temple, in Srikakulam Village (todays krishna District) on the banks of river Krishna, in which Lord Andhra Maha Vishnu appeared and instructed him to write the story of his wedding to Andal at Srirangam in Telugu. In his dream, on being asked why Telugu was chosen, Lord Vishnu is said to have replied

తెలుఁగ దేల యెన్న దేశంబు దెలుఁగేను

          తెలుఁగు వల్లభుండఁ తెలుఁగొకండ

యెల్ల నృపులు గొలువ నెరుఁగవే బాసాడి
దేశభాషలందుఁ తెలుఁగు లెస్స

— శ్రీ ఆంధ్ర విష్ణు

Teluga dēla yenna dēśambu delugēnu
telugu vallabhuṇḍa telugokaṇḍa
yella nr̥pulu goluva nerugavē bāsāḍi
dēśabhāṣalandu telugu les'sa

— Śrī Viṣhṇu's reason on why Āmuktamālyada should be written in telugu by Sri Krishnadevaraya

Which translates to: "If you ask, 'Why Telugu?' It is because this is Telugu country and I am a Telugu king. Telugu is sweet. After speaking with all the kings that serve you, didn’t you realize - amongst all the languages in the country, Telugu is the best!"

Amuktamalyada describes pain of separation (viraha) experienced by Andal, who is described as the incarnate of Lakshmi the consort of Vishnu. Further the poem describes Andal’s beauty in 30 verses written in the keśādi-pādam style, starting from her hair, going down her body till her feet.

NK(from anothers page.)

  Parasara Maharishi, who explained the famous history in Sri Vishnu Purana, which is praised as Purana Ratnam, prayed to Prakalathan Thirumal that his father Iraniyan should be corrected, and Thirumal who wanted to satisfy him, himself made an incarnation like Iranian, along with Prakalatan said that he did Sangeerthanam, Vishnu Pooja etc.


Meanwhile, Parasara Maharishi said that the real Iranian continued to do his atrocities and as his atrocities increased, the pillar was split and Narasimha appeared and killed the deadly Iranian.


* After knowing the news that Iraniyan's younger brother was killed by taking incarnation as Thirumal, the Iranian searched all over the world to take revenge of Thirumalai.


He couldn't find the holy garland anywhere. Because Thirumal is hiding in a place where Iranian can't search. Which is that place? Iranian's heart is where Thirumal was hiding and did magic.


* Once upon a time Vyasa and other Sage were sitting in Naimisaranyam and arguing.


Then some sages said, ′′ Narasimha should call him 'Himson' (torture maker) because he tore the bodies of Iranian monsters with his sharp nails and torture them!"


Vyasa said to him, ′′ Sage! In our eyes, Narasimha tearing the monsters body with his nails looks like torture. But it's not torture.


Because if the monsters want to experience the punishment for their sins, they will have to roam in hell for many corruption times.


Instead of suffering in hell for so long, Narasimha tore their bodies with his sharp nails, giving them deep sorrow in a second, removing their sins and purifies them.


Even though it looks like Hims in a glimpse, Narasimha, who really has mercy on the evil monsters and makes them miserable to purify them, is doing the right planet to Hims.


So change the name you said Himson to be straight!" said Vyasa.


When you change the word Himson in a straight way, will it come as 'Simhan'? So, from that day, Narasimha was called 'Simhan'.


The lion is also called 'Simham' because it has a face like that Simhan.


* Ramanujar is very engaged in Narasimha. Ramanujar got Narasimha mantra advice from the Guru Esantan.


Ramanujar, who appointed seventy-four disciples after him as Vaishnava Gurus, offered the Vikraham of Narasimha to those seventy-four for pooja and preached Narasimha mantra to all of them.


* Parasara Butter will tell a tasty story to explain the pride of Narasimha.


A father gave his son only milk without sugar.


He asked, ′′ How does it taste?" ′′ Sweet is less!" said son.


Next, he gave only sugar to his son and asked, ′′ How is it?"


′′ This is sweeter than milk!" said son.


Next, the father mixed sugar in milk and asked, ′′ How is it!"


′′ Oh my father! Sugar mixed milk is sweeter than just milk and just sugar. Hereafter give me only sugar mixed milk!" Son said.


The incarnations like Matsyam, Kurmam taken with the form of Thirumal are just like milk.


Avatars like Raman and Kannan taken in human form are just like sugar.


But, the incarnation of Narasimha, which is taken into a mix of both human and animal is like sugar mixed milk.


How a boy who drank sugar mixed milk does not like just milk and just sugar, the mind of a devotee who was involved in Narasimha Avatar does not engage in other incarnations of Thirumal.


* ′′ Narasimha appeared from the pillar

Therefore, the pillar became the mother of Thirumal and the grandmother of Brahma, the son of Thirumal Vedanta Desik also wrote a slogan:


′′ Pradyathishta Ancient Praharana Krama: Moment Panijai:

Avyath Trini Jagandyagunda Mahima Vaikunda Kandeerava: |


Yat Pradhu: Pavanatha Vandya Jadara Yatruchikat Vedasam

Ya Kashid Sahasa Mahasura Kruha Stuna Father Abood || ′′


* Narasimha appeared as a bird with two heads, two wings and eight legs to defeat the bird created by the gods against Narasimha.


Those who see it are called as Patchi. Even today we can see the form of a grand patch in the neck of Devathirajap Perumal in Therazhundur.


62 km from Hyderabad Yours. You can see Narasimha in three forms of Jwala Narasimha, Yogananda Narasimha, Kandaperanda Narasimha, in the mountain of Yadagiri Kutta.


* When the four sons of Sanath went to Vaikundam to worship the holy evening, we know that the Jaya-Vijayar who stopped it were born on earth as Iraniyan-Iraniyatsan, Ravan-Kumbakarnan, Sisubalan-Tandavakran, who stopped it.


Once upon a time, when Brahma went to Vaikundam, the guardian stopped Brahma in the mouth of Sugan.


Brahma cursed that he should be born on earth.


But Thirumal came out, ′′ Brahma! This sugan is my greatest devotee. Arrogance doesn't stop you like Jaya-Vijayar.


He stopped me thinking that your arrival would be interrupted by my sleep.


Nevertheless, don't take back the curse you gave. Let him be born on earth. But let him be a great devotee and be a role model for all my devotees!"


That Sugan is the Baktap Prakalathan.


* When Adi Shankar was trapped in a fire accident and his hand was affected by fire, Lakshmi Narasimha Karaavalamba performed the praise of Stotram.


′′ Srimadpayonidhi - Nikethana! Chakraban!

Go - go! Maniranjitha - Punyamoorth!

Yogisa-Sachavata-Saranya! Pawaptibotha!

Laxmeenrusimha! Mama Dehi Kara procession ′′


- He started and prayed to Narasimha to protect his hand.


Next second, Narasimha appeared there with sixteen hands. He was holding a conch wheel in both hands.


He caught the body of Shankar with two hands.


He extinguished the fire with both hands.


He showed the danger seal with both hands.


He consoled with two hands.


He lifted Shankar with two hands.


He poured honey on Shankar's body with his two hands.


He threw a fan to Shankar with his two hands.


Sankara got up and expressed his gratitude to Narasimha.


′′ Those who help us in danger are the most beautiful visible to our eyes.


When devotees like Prakalathan are in danger, Perumal Narasimha who can come and protect them immediately. So he's the cutest!" the elders say.


That's why it's called ′′ Beautiful Singer


* Why is Mahalakshmi sitting on her lap only for Narasimha to sit on the chest of all other Perumal?


If you want to see the beautiful face of the beautiful singer Narasimha, you cannot see it as you are in the chest.


Can we see only when we sit on the lap? That is why Sri Devi is sitting on the lap of Narasimha who is a great man.


* Holika, the sister of Iranian, had the power to not be burned by fire.


When she tried to fire Prakalathan, Narasimha saved Prakalatan and put Holika on fire.


In memory of that, the day before the festival of Holika Tahan, the day before the festival of Holika Tahan is held.


* Iranian, who received many boons from Brahma, wanted that death should not happen to him with living wealth or lifeless things.


That is why Narasimha scratched him with his nails and tortured him.


If you cut your nails, it can become lifeless if it grows, but if you cut it, it can become lifeless.


* The fourth song of Paripadal, one of the Sangam Tamil literature tells the pride of Narasimha.


Do it Sengat Selva! Fame of the color

Smoked chest, the dawn of peace

Pirungalathan is a lot of sickness

The trembling of the blossomed disease

Screaming praises, Dadhai Agalin

Ikazhvon, Ikazha Nanjin, you Ikazha

He tried to plant well,

The one who planted together is Marbin -

Aside from religion and religion,

Thunder Murasu Iyampa with another one,

Don't explode, run away pillar,

The Ugirinai who played many films


* Narasimha has three eyes.


The sun is in his right eye, the moon in his left eye, and fire in his forehead.


The purpose of Narasimhavadhar is to show that the one who is full of all over is God.


Eye means a place in Tamil. Since it is filled everywhere, Narasimha also has a name as Kannan.


That is why, when the son of Ulan Kannan is not here, the son of Ulan Kannan is not here, he mentioned Narasimha in the song ′′ Kannan, the pride of my Singapore Braun who appeared in the song


Tuesday, September 22, 2020

एकात्मता मंत्र

 यं वैदिका मन्त्रदृशः पुराणा

इन्द्रं यमं मातरिश्वानमाहुः।

वेदन्तिनोऽनिर्वचनियमेकं

यं ब्रह्मशब्देन विनिर्दिशन्ति ॥ १ ॥


शैवा यमीशं शिव इत्यवोचन्

यं वैष्णवा विष्णुरितिस्तुवन्ति।

बुद्धस्तथाऽर्हन्निति बौद्धजैनाः

सत् श्री अकालेति च सिक्ख संतः ॥ २॥


शास्तेति केचित् प्रकृतीक कुमारः

स्वामीति मातेति पितेति भक्त्या।

यं प्रार्थयन्ते जगदीशितारं

स एक एव प्रभुरद्वितीयः ॥ ३ ॥


The supreme Lord of the Universe is one whom the ancient seers referred to as INDRA, YAMA and MATARISVAN.

The Vedantins call HIM as one beyond the description of words and recognise HIM as identical with BRAHMAN.

The Saivites call HIM as Siva, the Vaishnavites as Vishnu the Buddhists and the Jains as Buddha and Jina respectively. the noble Sikhs call HIM as Sat Sri Akala others worship HIM as Sasta while some others as Kumara Swami Mother and Father.

R M

 You can reach god if, with intense love and devotion, you worship him by mind, word and deed, by meditating on him, by uttering his holy names, by offering flowers etc., by prostrating at his lotus feet and so on, along with the performance of duties cast on you according to Varna and Asrama, with the correct and true Knowledge of the relation between the individual soul and the supreme soul. - Sri Ramanuja in Vedartha Sangraha



 SRI RAMANUJACHARYA AND HIS MANAGEMENT

By K.S. Mohan Kumar T.T.D. Religious Publications


THIS BOOK AND MANY OTHERS ARE AVAILABLE TO READ ON THE NET.

Monday, September 21, 2020