Friday, October 23, 2026

New twist to story telling

 

When Preaching Learns to Tell Stories — The Art of Making Us Laugh and Think

We are familiar with preaching. Someone speaks, others listen, and a lesson is offered for us to carry home.

But what happens when preaching becomes a character in a story? What if the preacher himself becomes the subject of humour, and the audience discovers the message without being directly instructed?

A refreshing form of storytelling seems to be doing just that. Through letters, unexpected questions, witty exchanges and emotional twists, it makes us laugh at human nature while quietly examining our own.

Three examples illustrate the beauty of this approach.

1. Why Are Honest People Always Poor?

A student approaches the preacher with a familiar question:

“Why are honest and good people always poor?”

The preacher turns the question around.

“If you were telling a story, how would you keep your audience interested?”

The student suggests making the honest hero a rich man.

“And how would you end the story?” the preacher asks.

The exchange cleverly exposes an uncomfortable possibility. Have we become so accustomed to seeing goodness rewarded only after suffering that we have made poverty almost compulsory for the honest hero?

Do stories reflect life, or do they train us to expect life to follow familiar storylines?

Of course, honesty does not guarantee wealth, and wealth does not establish goodness. Real life is more complicated than either proposition. But the humour lies in questioning why we repeatedly make virtue suffer before allowing it to triumph.

Sometimes, the first step towards changing a story is to question the assumptions on which it is built.

2. The Letters That Were Never Posted

An elderly woman approaches the preacher and asks him to write a letter to her son, who has not visited her.

He writes the letter, but she asks him not to mention that she is waiting for her son.

Puzzled, he asks why she continues to write if she never receives a reply.

Her answer reveals the loneliness hidden beneath her request. She does not want to lose the purpose that keeps her going. The letters give her a way to remain connected to her son, even when he is absent.

Then comes the revelation.

The preacher rushes to meet his own mother. There, beneath a picture frame from years gone by, he discovers a letter from her.

His mother has been dead for seven years.

In a few moments, the story changes from a conversation about another person's family into a confrontation with his own past.

The letters that were never posted become more than letters. They represent words left unsaid, affection that was taken for granted, and relationships we sometimes believe can wait until tomorrow.

The story does not need to lecture us about filial duty. It allows us to feel the cost of postponing love.

How many people are waiting for a phone call, a visit or even a few unhurried minutes with someone they love?

And how many of us assume that there will always be another opportunity?

Some stories make us laugh. Others leave us wishing we had called someone sooner.

3. When Even Ghalib Needs a Little Peace

Then there is the delightful literary reflection:

Har din koi gham, koi shikayat, koi qissa zaroori toh nahi. Kabhi zindagi bhi sukoon se guzarti hai.

Not every day needs a sorrow, a complaint or a story. Sometimes life simply passes in peace.

The writer sits down to compose a story, only to find herself entangled in the thoughts of Mirza Ghalib.

There is wit, there is literary mischief, and there is an affectionate protest against the habit of making heartbreak the centre of every tale.

The reflection reminds us that literature has a long love affair with sorrow. Broken hearts inspire poetry, separation inspires songs, and tragedy gives birth to memorable stories.

But what about contentment?

Must every relationship end in heartbreak? Must every day bring a complaint? Must every story contain a wound to be worth telling?

Perhaps we have become so accustomed to dramatic suffering that we forget the quiet beauty of an ordinary, peaceful day.

A meal shared without argument, a letter received with affection, a conversation with an old friend, the pleasure of watching the rain—these may not provide the material for a grand tragedy, but they are part of what makes life beautiful.

Not every happy ending needs a preceding disaster.

And not every peaceful day needs to be converted into a problem that must be solved.

The New Art of Storytelling

What connects these three stories?

The first uses humour to question a convention. The second uses an emotional twist to awaken regret and affection. The third gently challenges our fascination with sorrow.

None needs a long sermon at the end. The stories themselves do the work.

That is the difference between telling people what they ought to understand and creating a situation in which they discover it for themselves.

Perhaps this is particularly effective across generations. A student sees one truth, an elderly woman another, and a literary enthusiast yet another. Each character brings a different age, experience and expectation to the conversation.

The storyteller does not have to announce a moral after every episode. The audience is trusted to think.

And there is something refreshing about being allowed to laugh at our own contradictions rather than being made to feel guilty about them.

A sermon may tell us the lesson. A good story lets us experience it. A great story stays with us because we continue discovering new meanings in it.

Perhaps preaching has not disappeared. It has simply discovered a new voice—one that can tease us, surprise us, move us and, when necessary, remind us that life is not always as complicated as we make it.

Sometimes wisdom arrives dressed as humour.

Sometimes it arrives in an unposted letter.

And sometimes it arrives as a gentle reminder from Ghalib: we need not turn every day into a tragedy. Some days are meant simply to be lived in peace.

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 Bahut gehra sawaal hai!  Premchand aur Manto ko saamne rakhkar hum darasal insaan ke do sach dekhte hain — insaan kaisa ho sakta hai, aur paristhitiyon mein aksar kaisa ban jaata hai.

Premchand ka yakeen tha ki gareebi, anyay aur dukh ke beech bhi insaaniyat ki lau jal sakti hai. Manto humein yaad dilate hain ki jab apne hit, dar aur nafrat saamne aate hain, tab us lau ko jalaye rakhna aasaan nahi hota.

Meri nazar mein, dono apni-apni jagah sahi hain.

Premchand humein insaaniyat par vishwas karna sikhate hain; Manto us vishwas ki keemat samajhna.

Achhai tabhi sachchi pariksha se guzarti hai jab use nibhaane mein kuch khona pade. Lekin iska matlab yeh bhi nahi ki har achhe kaam ke liye koi badi qurbani zaroori hai. Kabhi kisi ki madad karna, sach bolna, kisi kamzor ka saath dena ya nafrat ka jawaab nafrat se na dena bhi insaaniyat ko zinda rakhta hai.

Aur shayad in dono ke beech ek teesra sawaal bhi hai:

Premchand humein insaaniyat par vishwas karna sikhate hain; Manto us vishwas ki keemat samajhna.

Achhai tabhi sachchi pariksha se guzarti hai jab use nibhaane mein kuch khona pade. Lekin iska matlab yeh bhi nahi ki har achhe kaam ke liye koi badi qurbani zaroori hai. Kabhi kisi ki madad karna, sach bolna, kisi kamzor ka saath dena ya nafrat ka jawaab nafrat se na dena bhi insaaniyat ko zinda rakhta hai.

Aur shayad in dono ke beech ek teesra sawaal bhi hai:

Jab achhai ki keemat chukani pade, tab kya hum use chhod denge, ya uski keemat chukane ka saahas jutaayenge?

Premchand humein umeed dete hain. Manto humein aaina dikhate hain. Aur faisla humein karna hai.

Kyunki insaaniyat ki asli kahani kitaabon mein nahi, un chhote-chhote faislon mein likhi jaati hai jo hum tab karte hain jab koi humein dekh nahi raha hota. 

Tirukanden.

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Shri. Peyalwar in the well in maylapore. Prayers tirumanjanam performed in the well.

Tirukanden.thirumeni kanden. 

Thursday, October 22, 2026

Twelve Windows to the Divine.

 

The Twelve Purnimas — When the Moon Teaches Us the Meaning of Fullness

An Indian calendar of devotion, gratitude, wisdom and renewal

 A Full Moon, 

Have you ever stood beneath a full moon and wondered how generations before us looked at the same moon, celebrated its arrival and connected it with their faith?

Long before clocks and calendars became part of everyday life, the Moon helped people measure time. Its changing appearance marked the passing days, the arrival of seasons and the rhythm of agricultural life. Our ancestors observed this celestial movement and wove it into a calendar rich in festivals, stories and spiritual practices.

The full-moon day is called Purnima. The Sanskrit word pūrṇa means full or complete. Purnima falls at the end of Shukla Paksha, the bright fortnight during which the Moon appears to grow from a slender crescent into a luminous disc.

A typical lunar year has twelve Purnimas, one in each of its twelve months. In a year containing an additional lunar month, called Adhika Masa, there may be a thirteenth.

Every Purnima has its own associations. Some celebrate the greatness of a guru, some recall the power of devotion, and others invite us to practise charity, honour family bonds or seek spiritual knowledge.

Let us travel through these twelve full moons and discover the stories and values they bring into our lives.

1. Chaitra Purnima — The Full Moon of Courage and Devotion

Chaitra is the first month in the traditional sequence of lunar months.

Chaitra Purnima is associated with Chitra Purnima in Tamil traditions, when Chitragupta, the divine recorder of human deeds, is worshipped. Hanuman Jayanti also falls on this Purnima in several Indian traditions, though its observance varies by region.

The story and its significance

Chitragupta reminds us that our actions matter. What we do when nobody is watching, the kindness we offer without expecting a reward, and the choices we make when faced with a difficult situation all form part of our moral journey.

Hanuman represents another dimension of goodness: strength guided by humility and complete dedication to Lord Rama.

Hanuman possessed extraordinary abilities, yet he never used them for personal glory. His strength became meaningful because it was placed in the service of dharma.

True strength is not the ability to dominate others. It is the ability to protect, help and remain steadfast when duty calls.

As a new cycle of months begins, Chaitra Purnima invites us to ask ourselves: Are my actions worthy of the trust others place in me?

2. Vaishakha Purnima — The Full Moon of Wisdom and Compassion

Vaishakha Purnima is widely celebrated as Buddha Purnima, commemorating Gautama Buddha's birth, enlightenment and Mahaparinirvana according to Buddhist traditions.

It is also an important day for worship, charity and sacred bathing in Hindu traditions.

The story and its significance

The Buddha's life is a remarkable journey from privilege to inquiry. He left behind the comforts of palace life in search of an answer to a question that remains relevant even today: Why do human beings suffer, and how can suffering be overcome?

His teaching encouraged compassion, self-discipline, mindfulness and freedom from destructive attachments.

The full moon becomes a fitting symbol for the light of understanding. Just as illumination helps us see what was previously hidden, wisdom helps us recognise the causes of our own unhappiness.

Knowledge is valuable, but knowledge accompanied by compassion transforms lives.

We need not become monks or withdraw from the world to practise kindness. Listening patiently, speaking gently, helping someone in distress and examining our own prejudices are everyday expressions of wisdom.

Vaishakha Purnima reminds us that spiritual greatness is reflected not merely in what we know, but in how we treat others.

3. Jyeshtha Purnima — The Full Moon of Commitment and Love

Jyeshtha Purnima is associated with Vat Purnima in several parts of India, particularly Maharashtra and Gujarat. Married women traditionally worship the banyan tree and remember the story of Savitri and Satyavan.

In other regions, the Vat Savitri observance takes place on a different lunar date.

The story of Savitri and Satyavan

Savitri chose Satyavan as her husband even though she knew that his life was destined to be short.

When Yama, the god of death, came to take Satyavan's life, Savitri followed him. Through her steadfastness, wisdom and eloquence, she won Yama's favour and ultimately secured her husband's return to life in the traditional story.

The banyan tree, with its deep roots and spreading branches, becomes a powerful symbol of continuity, endurance and shelter.

The story has been cherished for generations as an account of devotion, determination and the power of a clear mind.

Love is not merely an emotion. It also expresses itself through responsibility, courage and the willingness to stand beside another person during difficult times.

The deeper lesson is not confined to marriage. Every meaningful relationship requires trust, patience and mutual care.

Like the banyan tree, a good relationship grows stronger when its roots are nurtured.

4. Ashadha Purnima — Guru Purnima: The Full Moon of Gratitude

Of all the Purnimas, Guru Purnima holds a special place in the hearts of students and spiritual seekers.

It is dedicated to the guru, the teacher who helps us move from ignorance towards understanding. The day is also traditionally associated with Veda Vyasa, the revered sage connected with the preservation and arrangement of Vedic knowledge and the composition of the Mahabharata.

Why do we honour the guru?

A teacher does more than transfer information. A good teacher opens the mind, awakens curiosity, corrects our mistakes and helps us discover abilities we may not have recognised in ourselves.

In spiritual life, the guru also guides the seeker in understanding the scriptures and applying their teachings.

Our gratitude need not be restricted to one person. Parents, schoolteachers, authors, mentors, elders and even difficult experiences can teach us something valuable.

We should never become so confident in our knowledge that we stop learning.

Guru Purnima is an opportunity to thank those who have helped shape our lives. A message of gratitude, a visit to a teacher, the study of a meaningful text or the sincere practice of a lesson learned can all become offerings.

The finest tribute to a teacher is to allow the teacher's wisdom to improve the way we live.

5. Shravana Purnima — The Full Moon of Protection and Sacred Bonds

Shravana Purnima is celebrated in different ways across India.

It is associated with Raksha Bandhan in many regions, Narali Purnima among coastal communities, and the Upakarma observance in several Vedic traditions.

Many traditions, one underlying idea

During Raksha Bandhan, a sister ties a sacred thread on her brother's wrist, expressing affection and prayers for his well-being. The relationship also reminds us that protection and responsibility should flow both ways.

On Narali Purnima, coastal communities offer coconuts to the sea and pray for safety and prosperity. The observance has particular significance for fishing communities as they mark the seasonal rhythm of life at sea.

In Vedic traditions, Upakarma marks an occasion associated with the renewal of scriptural study and sacred responsibilities.

The sacred thread is small, but the sentiment behind it can be immense.

Our relationships become meaningful when affection is accompanied by responsibility. Protection may mean helping a sibling, standing up for someone who is being treated unfairly, or caring for an elderly relative.

Shravana Purnima reminds us that a bond becomes sacred when we honour the duties that accompany it.

6. Bhadrapada Purnima — The Full Moon of Remembrance and Truth

Bhadrapada Purnima is associated with worship, charity and observances such as Satyanarayana Puja in many households. In some calendar traditions, it also marks the beginning of Pitru Paksha, the fortnight dedicated to remembering ancestors.

The exact placement of Pitru Paksha depends on the regional calendar and observance.

Remembering those who came before us

Every family carries an inheritance that is greater than property or possessions.

We inherit languages, customs, recipes, songs, values, skills and stories. We may also benefit from sacrifices made by people whose names we no longer remember.

The observance of ancestors encourages gratitude towards those who contributed to our lives. It reminds us that we are part of a chain of generations, receiving from the past and passing something onward.

The name Satyanarayana also brings the idea of truth into the heart of household worship. Devotion becomes meaningful when our conduct reflects honesty and responsibility.

Remembering our ancestors should inspire us to preserve what is good in our inheritance while correcting what needs improvement.

We honour the past not simply by recalling names, but by carrying forward kindness, integrity and generosity.

Bhadrapada Purnima invites us to reflect on the invisible roots that support our lives.

7. Ashvina Purnima — Sharad Purnima: The Full Moon of Beauty and Abundance

Sharad Purnima, also known in some regions as Kojagara Purnima, is celebrated during the autumn season.

After the monsoon, the sky in many parts of India becomes clearer. The bright moon and the pleasant night have inspired poetry, devotion and popular traditions.

The story and its significance

In several traditions, Sharad Purnima is associated with Goddess Lakshmi and prayers for prosperity. Some households prepare milk or kheer and place it beneath the moonlight as part of customary observances.

In Vaishnava traditions, the autumn full moon is also associated with the beautiful and devotional accounts of Krishna's Rasa Lila in the Bhagavata Purana.

These traditions express different dimensions of abundance: material well-being, divine grace, beauty and the joy of loving devotion.

The custom of keeping food beneath moonlight is a traditional observance; claims about special medicinal effects from moon-exposed food should not be confused with established scientific evidence.

Abundance is not measured only by the amount of money we possess.

A home filled with affection, food shared with others, time spent with family, and the ability to appreciate nature are also forms of wealth.

Sharad Purnima invites us to pause and recognise the beauty that already surrounds us.

8. Kartika Purnima — The Full Moon of Light and Triumph

Kartika Purnima is among the most widely celebrated full-moon days of the Hindu calendar.

It is associated with Dev Deepavali, the lighting of lamps in honour of the gods, and Tripurari Purnima, connected with Lord Shiva's victory over the three cities of the asuras in the traditional account.

The day is also important for sacred bathing, pilgrimage and worship. In Sikh tradition, Guru Nanak Jayanti is observed around this period and often falls on Kartika Purnima, depending on the calendar.

The story of Tripurari

According to Hindu tradition, the three cities of Tripura became a source of great oppression. Lord Shiva destroyed them, restoring order and overcoming the forces that threatened dharma.

The name Tripurari refers to Shiva as the destroyer of Tripura.

The lighting of lamps on Kartika Purnima gives this victory a beautiful visual expression. In places such as Varanasi, thousands of lamps illuminate the ghats, turning the riverfront into a magnificent celebration of light.

Every person faces inner obstacles: anger, jealousy, pride, greed and resentment.

The destruction of the three cities can be contemplated as a reminder that we too must overcome the tendencies that diminish our better nature.

Lighting a lamp is a simple act. Allowing its symbolism to guide our behaviour is the deeper observance.

Kartika Purnima teaches us that light becomes meaningful when it helps dispel darkness, both around us and within us.

9. Margashirsha Purnima — The Full Moon of Wisdom and Divine Presence

Margashirsha Purnima is associated with Dattatreya Jayanti in several traditions. Lord Dattatreya is revered as a divine figure embodying the unity of Brahma, Vishnu and Shiva.

The month of Margashirsha itself has a special place in the Bhagavad Gita.

In Chapter 10, Verse 35, Lord Krishna declares:

मासानां मार्गशीर्षोऽहम्

Māsānāṁ mārgaśīrṣo 'ham.

Meaning: “Among the months, I am Margashirsha.”

This is part of the Vibhuti Yoga, in which Krishna describes the special manifestations of divine greatness in the world.

The story and its significance

Dattatreya is associated with spiritual wisdom, renunciation and learning from the world around us. Traditional accounts describe him as recognising teachers in elements of nature and in the behaviour of living beings.

The idea is striking: a sincere seeker can learn not only from books and formal teachers, but also from observation, reflection and experience.

A river teaches movement. A tree teaches generosity. The sky suggests spaciousness. Even a mistake can become a teacher when we have the humility to learn from it.

Wisdom does not always arrive in the form of a lecture.

Sometimes it appears in an unexpected conversation, a child's innocent question or an experience that forces us to reconsider our assumptions.

Margashirsha Purnima encourages us to keep our minds open to learning and our hearts receptive to the presence of the Divine.

10. Pausha Purnima — The Full Moon of Purification and Giving

Pausha Purnima is associated with sacred bathing, worship, charity and spiritual discipline. In some traditions, it marks the beginning of the Magha bathing observances.

Pilgrims gather at sacred rivers and other holy places, while householders may offer prayers, food or donations to those in need.

The significance of sacred bathing

Water is essential to life, and its place in Indian spiritual culture extends far beyond physical cleansing.

Ritual bathing can symbolise the desire to wash away harmful tendencies, renew one's commitment to dharma and begin again with a clearer mind.

The practice of charity reinforces this inner renewal by directing attention towards the needs of others.

Purification is not merely a ritual performed with water. It is also the willingness to cleanse our thoughts and habits.

Can we let go of an old resentment? Can we correct a mistake rather than defend it? Can we share what we have with someone who needs it more?

Pausha Purnima invites us to make room for a fresh beginning through prayer, generosity and self-examination.

11. Magha Purnima — The Full Moon of Charity and Self-Discipline

Magha Purnima is an important day for sacred bathing, pilgrimage and charitable giving. It is particularly associated with the Magha Mela at Prayagraj, where pilgrims gather during the auspicious period.

The month of Magha has long been linked with religious observances intended to encourage self-discipline and spiritual reflection.

The significance of Magha

Pilgrimage requires effort. Rising early, travelling to a sacred place, bathing in a river and participating in prayer can help a person step away from the ordinary routine of daily life.

But the true value of a pilgrimage lies not only in reaching a sacred destination. It lies in what the journey awakens within us.

Charity is another important expression of this observance. Food, clothing, assistance and kind attention become ways of sharing our good fortune.

A disciplined life need not be a harsh life.

Small, regular efforts can bring lasting changes: a few minutes of prayer, a commitment to truthful speech, daily study or a habit of helping someone without being asked.

Magha Purnima reminds us that spiritual progress is often built through simple actions repeated with sincerity.

12. Phalguna Purnima — The Full Moon of Joy and Renewal

Phalguna Purnima is associated with Holika Dahan and the celebration of Holi in many parts of India.

It marks a joyful transition towards spring and brings together stories of devotion, the victory of good over evil, and the renewal of social bonds.

The story of Prahlada and Holika

The Bhagavata Purana tells the story of Prahlada, a young devotee of Lord Vishnu whose father, Hiranyakashipu, opposed his devotion.

Despite repeated attempts to frighten and harm him, Prahlada remained steadfast in his faith.

Holika, who was believed to possess protection from fire under particular conditions, attempted to destroy Prahlada by sitting with him in a fire. The traditional story recounts that Prahlada survived through divine grace, while Holika perished.

Holika Dahan commemorates the triumph of devotion and the defeat of destructive pride.

The following celebration of Holi fills streets and homes with colours, music and laughter.

Prahlada's story reminds us that faith and courage can remain strong even when a person faces opposition.

Holi offers another lesson: relationships can be renewed. Old disagreements may be set aside, forgiveness can be offered, and people can meet one another with fresh affection.

The colours of Holi are a celebration of life's variety. Our differences need not prevent us from sharing happiness.

Phalguna Purnima brings the twelve-month journey to a joyful close, preparing us for the next cycle of time.

What the Twelve Purnimas Teach Us Together

When we look at all twelve Purnimas, we discover that they form more than a calendar of religious observances.

They offer a sequence of values for living:

Chaitra: Courage and devotion.

Vaishakha: Wisdom and compassion.

Jyeshtha: Commitment and steadfast love.

Ashadha: Gratitude to our teachers.

Shravana: Protection and responsibility.

Bhadrapada: Remembrance and truth.

Ashvina: Beauty and abundance.

Kartika: The victory of light over darkness.

Margashirsha: Learning and divine presence.

Pausha: Purification and generosity.

Magha: Discipline and charity.

Phalguna: Faith, forgiveness and renewal.

These are not rigid lessons assigned exclusively to particular months. They are values we can practise throughout the year. The calendar simply gives us recurring opportunities to pause and remember them.

Conclusion: Let Our Lives Become Full

The Moon does not remain full forever. After Purnima, it gradually wanes, disappears from view and begins its journey towards fullness again.

Human life follows similar rhythms.

There are periods of confidence and joy, and there are times when we feel uncertain or incomplete. There are moments when our faith shines brightly, and others when we must make a conscious effort to sustain it.

The beauty of the lunar cycle is that it keeps returning. Each month offers another opportunity to begin again.

We need not observe every Purnima with elaborate rituals. We can honour these sacred days in simple ways: through prayer, reading a meaningful verse, helping someone, thanking a teacher, feeding the hungry or spending a quiet moment beneath the moon.

The purpose of a sacred calendar is not merely to tell us which day to celebrate. It can also remind us how to live.

May every Purnima bring us a little more wisdom, a little more compassion and a deeper appreciation of the blessings already present in our lives.

As the Moon shines in fullness, may our hearts too grow fuller — with faith in the Divine, gratitude for what we have received and kindness towards every living being.

The Moon returns to fullness every month. May we return to goodness every day.


Bird nest and Gita.

 It is truly amazing to watch birds build their nests! What looks like a tiny construction project carried out by a little creature is, in reality, one of nature’s most remarkable achievements.

Are only a few birds talented builders, or can all birds build nests with such precision?

The answer is fascinating: nest-building is largely an inherited instinct, but the skill, complexity and precision differ enormously from species to species. Not every bird is an equally gifted architect!

Nature's little architects

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1. The weaver bird — Nature's master weaver

The baya weaver, found in India, builds elaborate hanging nests by weaving long strips of grass together. The male often begins the structure and displays it to attract a female, who may inspect the workmanship before accepting it.Think of it: no ruler, no blueprint, no lessons in weaving!


Bhagavad Gita 3.35

स्वधर्मे निधनं श्रेयः परधर्मो भयावहः।

Svadharme nidhanam śreyaḥ, paradharmo bhayāvahaḥ.

Meaning: It is better to follow one's own duty, even imperfectly, than to follow another's duty.

Connection with nature: The weaverbird does not try to build like a tailorbird, nor does the crow attempt to imitate the sunbird. Each follows its own inherited way of building. Nature displays a beautiful diversity of abilities, each suited to a particular life.


2. The tailorbird — Nature's tailor

This tiny bird draws leaves together and uses plant fibres or spider silk to fasten them, creating a cradle in which to place its nest. The leaf itself becomes part of the protective structure.

It seems to understand that a living leaf can serve as a natural wall!


3. The sunbird — The hanging-home specialist

Sunbirds construct small, pouch-like nests from plant fibres, spider webs and other materials. Some use dangling strands to suspend the nest, making it difficult for predators to approach.


4. The crow — The practical engineer

Crows build sturdy nests from twigs and other available materials. They may reuse materials, adjust the arrangement and improve their construction through experience.

Their skill reminds us that not all good architecture has to be intricate. Sometimes, strength and practicality matter more than beauty.


But can every bird build a nest?

No. Birds follow different strategies.

Some are born with remarkable building instincts. Weaverbirds, tailorbirds and many other species construct elaborate homes.

Some learn and improve with experience. Practice and observation can influence the quality of nest construction.

Some use very simple nests. Pigeons, for instance, may build rather flimsy platforms of twigs.

Some hardly build nests at all. Many owls use existing cavities, while cuckoos of certain species lay their eggs in the nests of other birds.

So, precision is not universal. Each species has evolved a strategy suited to its environment, materials, predators and the needs of its young.

How do they know what to do?

This is the most astonishing part.

A young bird does not need to attend a school of architecture. Its genes influence its building behaviour, and its brain is equipped to respond to particular materials, shapes and surroundings.

Yet instinct is not the whole story. Experience, practice, environmental conditions and sometimes social learning also matter.

Scientists call this combination of inherited behaviour and experience an interaction between instinct and learning.

The bird is not consciously calculating angles and forces as a human engineer would. But natural selection has favoured behaviours that, over countless generations, tend to produce nests capable of protecting eggs and chicks.

In a sense, evolution has been conducting its own experiments for millions of years.

And here is a beautiful thought 

Bhagavad Gita 3.33

सदृशं चेष्टते स्वस्याः प्रकृतेर्ज्ञानवानपि।

Sadṛśaṁ ceṣṭate svasyāḥ prakṛter jñānavān api.

Meaning: Even a person of knowledge acts according to their own nature; all beings follow their nature.

Connection with nature: A bird does not need a classroom to begin its characteristic work. Its natural tendencies guide it, while experience and the environment influence how it builds. The Gita's observation about nature gives a thoughtful way to reflect on this diversity of living beings.


When we watch a bird building its nest, we are witnessing more than construction. We are seeing a tiny creature responding to an ancient inheritance, selecting materials, overcoming difficulties and creating a place for the next generation.

A bird does not need to know the scientific principles behind its work to put them into practice.

Human beings possess knowledge and must often learn how to use it. Birds possess instincts that guide them towards astonishing achievements.

Neither should make us underestimate the other.

Perhaps the most wonderful lesson is this: nature does not give every creature the same talent. It gives different creatures different abilities, each suited to its own purpose.

And when we pause to watch a bird carefully place one more twig or weave one more strand, we discover something else: wonder does not always require a grand spectacle. Sometimes, it is happening quietly on a branch just outside our window.

Bhagavad Gita 18.46

यतः प्रवृत्तिर्भूतानां येन सर्वमिदं ततम्।

स्वकर्मणा तमभ्यर्च्य सिद्धिं विन्दति मानवः॥

Yataḥ pravṛttir bhūtānāṁ yena sarvam idaṁ tatam,

svakarmaṇā tam abhyarcya siddhiṁ vindati mānavaḥ.

Meaning: From whom all beings arise and by whom all this is pervaded, a person attains fulfilment by worshipping Him through their own work.

Connection with nature: The Gita teaches that a human being can turn their own work into an offering to the Divine. When we watch a bird building its nest, we may see an opportunity to reflect on the wondrous diversity of creation and the different purposes served by its many forms of life.

The verse speaks specifically about human beings and their work; the reflection on the bird is an extension inspired by the verse.

Greatness begins with service.

 It is remarkable that a comedian, known around the world for making people laugh without speaking, gave one of cinema's most powerful appeals for humanity.

Charlie Chaplin in 1940 — A Speech the World Still Needs to Hear 

The greatness of a human being lies not in the power to rule others, but in the willingness to serve humanity.

There are moments in history when a voice rises above the noise of its time and speaks to generations yet unborn. In 1940, when the world was being torn apart by war, hatred and the ambition of dictators, a man best known for making people laugh delivered one of the most powerful speeches in the history of cinema.

That man was Charlie Chaplin.

The film was The Great Dictator, released in 1940. Chaplin played two contrasting characters: Adenoid Hynkel, a ruthless dictator unmistakably reminiscent of Adolf Hitler, and a humble Jewish barber whose life becomes entangled with the dictator's world.

For much of the film, Chaplin used satire and comedy to expose the absurdity and cruelty of dictatorship. But in the final scene, the laughter gives way to something far more serious. The humble barber is mistaken for the dictator and finds himself addressing a vast audience.

What follows is not a speech about conquest, supremacy or political glory. It is an appeal to the conscience of humanity.

“I'm sorry, but I don't want to be an emperor.” 

These are the words with which Chaplin begins his extraordinary address.

An emperor possesses authority. A dictator commands obedience. A conqueror seeks to extend his power over others. But Chaplin's character rejects the very idea of ruling people through domination.

He declares that he does not want to conquer or rule anyone. He wants to help people, if possible.

In a world where power is often admired for its own sake, this simple declaration invites us to reconsider what greatness really means.

Is a person great because millions obey him? Because he possesses wealth, occupies a high office or commands armies? Or is greatness measured by the lives he improves, the suffering he alleviates and the dignity he preserves in others?

Power can make a person influential. It is the use of that power for the common good that gives it moral value.

When humanity forgets humanity 

Chaplin's speech emerged at a particularly dark moment in history. Nazi Germany had unleashed a war that would devastate Europe. Antisemitism, persecution and aggressive nationalism were destroying lives. Millions would eventually perish in the Holocaust and the wider conflict.

Chaplin saw the danger of a world in which scientific progress and technological achievement were not accompanied by moral progress.

He warned that machinery, intelligence and efficiency could not, by themselves, make the world a better place.

His message was that human beings needed compassion as much as they needed invention, kindness as much as cleverness, and brotherhood as much as material advancement.

How relevant this remains!

We live in an age of artificial intelligence, instant communication, extraordinary medical discoveries and journeys into space. We can speak to someone thousands of kilometres away in seconds. Yet technology cannot automatically teach us to listen patiently to the person sitting beside us.

We may have more information than any generation before us, but information alone does not guarantee wisdom. We may become more efficient at our work without becoming more considerate in our relationships.

Progress becomes meaningful when it improves not merely the speed at which we live, but the quality of our lives together.

The danger of hatred 

One of the most powerful aspects of Chaplin's speech is its appeal against hatred.

Hatred reduces human beings to labels. It encourages us to see people as enemies before we see them as fellow human beings. Once this happens, cruelty becomes easier to justify, and another person's suffering may cease to trouble our conscience.

Chaplin calls upon people to reject this path and recognise their shared humanity.

This message is especially important for younger generations growing up in a world of social media, instant opinions and endless arguments. A few words typed in anger can travel across the world. A rumour can damage a reputation. Differences of religion, language, nationality or political opinion can become excuses for hostility.

We do not have to agree with everyone. Differences are natural, and honest disagreement is necessary in a healthy society. But disagreement need not destroy respect.

The ability to stand firmly for what we believe while refusing to dehumanise those who disagree with us is a sign of maturity.

Kindness is not weakness. Forgiveness is not cowardice. And treating another person with dignity does not require us to abandon our convictions.

Greatness begins with service 

Chaplin's opening declaration leads us to a larger question: what should we do with whatever power we possess?

Not everyone becomes an emperor, a president, a business leader or a celebrated public figure. But every one of us exercises some kind of influence.

Parents shape the values of children. Teachers influence the minds of students. Doctors relieve suffering. Farmers feed communities. Workers keep essential services functioning. Neighbours offer help when difficulties arise. Grandparents preserve memories and pass on wisdom.

These acts may never make headlines, but they are essential to a functioning and compassionate society.

A person who uses authority to protect the vulnerable is exercising power meaningfully. A teacher who encourages a struggling student may change an entire life. A citizen who refuses to participate in injustice helps preserve the moral health of the community.

Service does not always require grand gestures. Sometimes it means listening without interrupting, helping without expecting recognition, correcting a mistake honestly or refusing to take advantage of someone weaker.

The measure of our contribution is not always how many people know our name. It may be how many people are better off because we were there.

A message for the younger generation 

Young people today are often encouraged to compete, achieve, accumulate and distinguish themselves from others. Ambition is valuable. Education, enterprise, discipline and the desire to excel can help individuals and societies flourish.

But ambition needs a larger purpose.

Success becomes richer when it creates opportunities for others. Knowledge becomes valuable when it helps solve real problems. Leadership becomes admirable when it accepts responsibility rather than merely demanding privileges.

We should encourage children to ask not only, “What do I want to become?” but also, “What kind of person do I want to be?”

Will I use my education only to secure my own future, or will I also contribute to the world around me? Will I measure my success by what I possess, or also by what I give? Will I use my voice to humiliate others, or to defend someone who cannot speak for themselves?

These questions are not old-fashioned. They are among the most important questions a modern society can ask.

This speech still matters 

Chaplin's speech is nearly a century old, yet its appeal remains alive because the human problems it addresses have not disappeared.

The world still struggles with war, prejudice, intolerance and the misuse of authority. Political systems and technologies change, but the temptation to place power above compassion remains.

The speech does not offer a detailed political programme. It offers something more fundamental: a moral challenge.

It asks us to consider whether our achievements are making us more humane, whether our freedom is accompanied by responsibility, and whether our progress leaves room for kindness.

Its lasting importance lies in the distance between what humanity can accomplish and what humanity sometimes chooses to do.

We can build extraordinary machines, yet neglect a lonely neighbour. We can travel across continents, yet refuse to cross the small distance separating two people divided by prejudice. We can speak of peace while allowing anger to govern our everyday conduct.

Chaplin reminds us that the work of building a better world begins with the way we treat one another.

Charlie Chaplin was a comedian who made the world laugh. In The Great Dictator, he demonstrated that humour could expose the foolishness of tyranny. Then, in the film's final speech, he showed that an artist could use his platform to make a serious appeal to the human conscience.

His character begins by rejecting the desire to be an emperor and ends by asking humanity to choose a better path.

We need not all become great leaders to make a difference. We need not possess extraordinary wealth or influence. We can begin with the power already in our hands: the power to speak kindly, act fairly, help someone in need and refuse to participate in cruelty.

A title may command respect, but character earns it. Authority may compel obedience, but compassion inspires trust. Power may change circumstances, but service can change lives.

Perhaps this is the lesson that Chaplin's speech leaves with us across the decades:

The greatness of a human being lies not in the power to rule others, but in the willingness to serve humanity.

And the world does not have to wait for another great leader to begin changing.

Each of us can begin today.



Tuesday, October 20, 2026

Tenderness.

 These verses are among the most tender moments in the Śrī Rāmacaritamānasa. Hanumān is not merely delivering a message from Lord Rāma to Mother Sītā; he is bringing the warmth of Rāma's heart to a wife who has been separated from Him and is suffering in Aśoka Vana.

What makes this passage so moving is that Hanumān speaks with the devotion of a servant, the tenderness of a son addressing his mother, and the love of a messenger who understands how deeply both Rāma and Sītā are suffering.

Let us take the next four verses, with the original Awadhi, transliteration, meaning, and the feelings behind Rāma's message.

Śrī Rāma's message to Sītā — Sundara Kāṇḍa

1. “In your separation, Sītā, everything has turned against me”

कहेउ राम बियोग तव सीता। मो कहुँ सकल भए बिपरीता॥

नव तरु किसलय मनहुँ कृसानू। कालनिसा सम निसि ससि भानू॥

Kaheu Rāma biyoga tava Sītā,

Mo kahuṃ sakala bhae biparītā.

Nava taru kisalaya manahuṃ kṛsānū,

Kālanisā sama nisi sasi bhānū.

Meaning

Rāma says, “O Sītā, in your separation, everything has become contrary to me.

The tender new leaves of trees seem like flames of fire. The night appears like the terrible night of destruction, and the moon seems as scorching as the sun.”

The feeling behind the words

Imagine this! The tender leaves that ordinarily bring joy seem to burn Him. The moon, which usually cools and comforts the heart, feels as hot as the sun.

The world outside has not changed. What has changed is Rāma's heart in Sītā's absence.

Love gives beauty to the world; separation can make even that beauty painful.

2. “Even the things that once comforted me now cause pain”

कुबलय बिपिन कुंत बन सरिसा। बारिद तपत तेल जनु बरिसा॥

जे हित रहे करत तेइ पीरा। उरग स्वास सम त्रिबिध समीरा॥

Transliteration

Kubalaya bipina kuṃta bana sarisā,

Bārida tapata tela janu barisā.

Je hita rahe karata tei pīrā,

Uraga svāsa sama tribidha samīrā.

Meaning

The beautiful lotus-filled lakes seem like forests of spears. The clouds appear to rain down burning oil.

Those very things that once brought comfort now cause suffering. The three kinds of breezes feel like the poisonous breath of a serpent.

The feeling behind the words

The imagery is astonishing. The flowers, clouds, cool breezes and lotus-filled waters are normally associated with beauty and pleasure. Yet, without Sītā, Rāma finds no relief in any of them.

When someone we deeply love is absent, even familiar joys may feel incomplete.

Tulsidas shows us the depth of Rāma's love not through grand declarations, but through the way He experiences the ordinary world.

3. “Who can understand the depth of our love?”

कहेहू तें कछु दुख घटि होई। काहि कहौं यह जान न कोई॥

तत्व प्रेम कर मम अरु तोरा। जानत प्रिया एकु मनु मोरा॥

Transliteration

Kahehu teṃ kachu dukha ghaṭi hoī,

Kāhi kahauṃ yaha jāna na koī.

Tattva prema kara mama aru torā,

Jānata priyā eku manu morā.

“Even if I speak of my sorrow, perhaps it may lessen a little. But to whom can I tell it? No one truly knows.

O beloved, only My heart knows the true nature and depth of the love between you and Me.”

The feeling behind the words

This is one of the most intimate moments in the message.

Rāma is the Lord revered by the world, yet here He speaks as a husband whose heart aches for his beloved wife. He longs to express His grief, but words cannot fully convey it.

There is also a beautiful recognition here: the deepest love is not always understood by the world. Two hearts may share a bond whose full meaning belongs only to them.

4. “My heart is always with you”

सो मनु सदा रहत तोहि पाहीं। जानु प्रीति रसु एतनेहि माहीं॥

प्रभु संदेसु सुनत बैदेही। मगन प्रेम तन सुधि नहिं तेही॥

“That heart of Mine always remains with you. Understand the depth of My love from this alone.”

As Vaidehī (Sītā) hears the Lord's message, she becomes completely absorbed in love, losing awareness of her own body.

The feeling behind the words

Here is the heart of the entire passage.

Rāma is telling Sītā that although they are physically separated, His heart has never left her.

And when Sītā hears these words, she is overwhelmed. The message does not merely inform her that Rāma is well; it assures her that she has never been forgotten.

Hanumān himself is overcome with emotion as he delivers this message. He is carrying the words of one beloved heart to another.


The tenderness of this episode

There is a beautiful sequence of emotions here:

Rāma reveals the pain of separation.

He confesses that no one else can fully understand His love for Sītā.

He assures her that His heart is always with her.

Sītā becomes immersed in that love as Hanumān conveys His words.

And then Hanumān gently brings her back to courage:

“Kahu kapi hṛdayaṃ dhīra dharu mātā…”

“Mother, take courage in your heart.”

The transition is so moving. Hanumān first allows Sītā to receive the depth of Rāma's love; then he reminds her that she must not lose heart.

A reflection for our lives: True love is not measured only by physical nearness. Sometimes, even across distance and difficulty, the knowledge that we remain in someone's heart gives us the strength to endure.

This is why Sundara Kāṇḍa touches so many hearts. It gives us not only the courage of Hanumān, but also the assurance of Rāma's unfailing love.