Nepal trip.oct 2nd to 7th 2025.

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Turns grief into street laughter.

The Malla Kings of Nepal

The Malla dynasty ruled much of the Kathmandu Valley for several centuries, roughly from the 13th to the 18th century. The word Malla means “wrestler” in Sanskrit, and the title was associated with strength and royalty.

The Malla period became a golden age of:

 Temple architecture

Wood carving and sculpture

Dance, music and festivals

Literature and scholarship

Hindu–Buddhist cultural traditions

The great palace squares at Kathmandu, Patan and Bhaktapur owe much of their splendour to the Malla kings.

Why did the kingdom become divided?

Initially, the Kathmandu Valley was more unified. But eventually the Malla kingdom split into three rival kingdoms:

Kathmandu (Kantipur)

Patan (Lalitpur)

Bhaktapur (Bhadgaon)

Each king wanted his city to be more magnificent than the others. Ironically, their rivalry produced some of Nepal's greatest architecture!

They competed by building:

Taller temples

More elaborate palaces

Beautiful public squares

Golden gates and windows

Extraordinary carvings

The famous Malla king

One of the best-known rulers was King Bhupatindra Malla of Bhaktapur, remembered for his patronage of art and architecture.

Another important figure was Yaksha Malla, whose reign represented a powerful period for the kingdom before its later fragmentation.

The end of the Malla kingdoms

The division into three competing kingdoms weakened them politically. In the 18th century, Prithvi Narayan Shah of Gorkha began conquering the Kathmandu Valley.

By 1768–69, the Shah kingdom had defeated the Malla rulers and unified Nepal under a new dynasty.

The great irony

The Malla kings lost their kingdoms—but their cities survived as their greatest legacy.

Even today, when one walks through Kathmandu, Patan or Bhaktapur, one sees the extraordinary world they created:

Kings disappeared, kingdoms changed, but their art turned entire cities into living museums.

Gai Jatra — The 400-Year-Old Nepali Tradition That Turns Grief into Street Laughter

How can a festival connected with death and bereavement become one of the most colourful, humorous and lively events in a country?

Nepal's Gai Jatra, or the Festival of Cows, offers a remarkable answer.

This centuries-old tradition, closely associated with the Malla period of Kathmandu, brings together grief, remembrance, community, humour and laughter in a way few other traditions do.

A King's Grief and a Queen's Sorrow

A popular account connects Gai Jatra with King Pratap Malla of Kathmandu in the 17th century.

The king and queen lost their young son. The queen was overwhelmed by grief, and nothing could bring her consolation.

The king then asked families who had lost a loved one during the previous year to join a public procession. Each bereaved family would participate in the streets, traditionally accompanied by a cow, considered sacred in Hindu tradition.

Where a cow was unavailable, a child could symbolically take its place.

As the procession passed through the city, the grieving queen witnessed something profound.

She saw that sorrow had visited countless homes.

She was not alone.

When Laughter Entered the Procession

But the king wanted more than simply to show the queen that death was universal.

According to tradition, he encouraged jokes, comic performances, costumes and satire.

The streets came alive.

People laughed.

Performers mocked social customs and powerful figures.

Humour became part of remembrance.

And slowly, a remarkable tradition emerged—one in which grief was not hidden behind closed doors but shared openly with the entire community.

The Cow and the Journey Beyond

In Hindu belief, the cow holds a sacred place and is associated with helping the departed soul on its journey.

Thus, the procession was also an act of remembrance and spiritual support for those who had died.

Families remembered their loved ones.

The community acknowledged their loss.

And the festival reminded everyone that death, though deeply personal, is also a universal human experience.

A Festival with a Powerful Message

Gai Jatra carries an extraordinary philosophy:

Grief should not isolate us.

No one is alone in suffering.

Remembering the departed is an act of love.

Laughter need not insult sorrow.

Humour can sometimes help the human heart survive what it cannot change.

That is the great paradox of Gai Jatra.

A procession born from bereavement becomes filled with colour, costumes, satire and laughter.

From Sorrow to Strength

Perhaps the deepest lesson of Gai Jatra is this:

We do not overcome grief by pretending it never happened.

We carry our memories with us.

We meet others who have suffered.

We realise that sorrow is part of the human journey.

And somewhere along that difficult road, we may discover that it is still possible to smile.

For more than four centuries, the streets of Nepal have echoed with this unusual wisdom.

Tears and laughter can exist together.

Memory and celebration can walk together.

And even a grieving heart can slowly rediscover life.

Gai Jatra is therefore more than a festival.

It is a gentle message from history:

When grief becomes too heavy to carry alone, let the community share it—and perhaps, one day, let laughter lighten the burden.

Marvel by the sea.

Murud-Janjira — The 500-Year-Old Fortress That Defied the Sea 

How can a massive stone fortress stand for centuries amid crashing waves, salt spray, monsoon storms, and the relentless Arabian Sea?

Off the coast of Maharashtra stands Murud-Janjira, one of India's most remarkable sea fortresses. Rising dramatically from the waters near Murud, this island stronghold has survived for nearly five centuries—and, famously, was never conquered by military force.

A Fortress Built Against the Ocean

The Janjira fort was developed under the Siddis, a community of African origin who became powerful rulers and naval commanders on India's western coast. Its strategic position in the sea made it extremely difficult for enemies to attack.

The builders understood something fundamental about marine construction: a structure fighting the sea must be designed to endure it, not merely resist it.

Its enormous stone walls, rounded and massive bastions, carefully chosen masonry, and strategic foundations helped the fortress withstand:

Constant wave action 

Salty sea air

Heavy monsoon rains

Strong coastal winds

Centuries of weathering

The Mystery of Its Extraordinary Durability

Modern reinforced concrete can deteriorate rapidly in marine environments when salt penetrates the material and corrodes the steel reinforcement within.

Murud-Janjira, however, was constructed primarily using massive stone masonry, without depending on modern steel reinforcement. Its thick walls and traditional mortar systems have proved remarkably durable.

There are popular claims that ancient lime mortars could undergo limited chemical changes over time and seal tiny cracks. While traditional lime-based mortars can indeed possess properties different from modern cement, calling the entire fortress “self-healing” requires scientific evidence and should not be exaggerated.

Its real secret may be even more impressive:

Good engineering, suitable materials, intelligent design, and centuries of endurance.

The Fortress That Remained Undefeated 

Murud-Janjira faced some of the greatest powers of Indian history. The Marathas made repeated attempts to capture it, yet the fortress remained unconquered.

Its sea location was its greatest defence.

Approaching the massive walls by water exposed attacking forces, while the fort's bastions and artillery positions gave its defenders a commanding advantage.

Even today, Janjira stands as a reminder that military strength is not always about the size of an army.

Sometimes, location and engineering decide history.

Fresh Water in the Middle of the Sea 

Perhaps one of the most fascinating features of Janjira is that, despite being surrounded by salt water, the island fortress historically possessed freshwater sources.

A fort could not survive a prolonged siege without drinking water. The availability and management of freshwater therefore formed an essential part of its defensive planning.

This reveals the extraordinary foresight of its builders.

They did not simply build walls.

They created a self-sustaining military settlement in the sea.

An Engineering Lesson from the Past

Murud-Janjira teaches us an important lesson.

Ancient engineering was not primitive engineering.

The builders may not have possessed computers, modern structural software, or reinforced concrete—but they possessed generations of practical knowledge about:

Stone and masonry

Water and waves

Local materials

Foundations

Climate

Defence

Maintenance

Five centuries later, the Arabian Sea is still testing Murud-Janjira.

And the fortress is still standing.

 Some structures are built for a lifetime. Others are built with such understanding that they become part of history itself.

Murud-Janjira is not merely a fort in the sea. It is a monument to the engineering wisdom of those who understood how to build with nature—and survive it.